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littlepl4yth1ng 30F
76 posts
12/7/2019 2:09 am
No big deal


Someone actually has some class and consideration for others. Freaked me the fuck out that the situation was so forgiving to the idea of lets just go nuts and the pissed off Frenchie upstairs could join in. he'd light up when our eyes met and locked while discussing big band and swing. He remained just that little bit further from me, just off , just barely there for me and the time to strike. 5 hours.
You guys act like a couple, very rare. he called my buddy left me, asks what the deal is. is it that unusual for someone to be kind?
relationships are apparently , spend time together, can run around the house naked with the other person, cares? but you don't have sex.he said it's normal... why do people get into this shit then? ? the passion and lust somehow dies..? i cant imagine, maybe I've never been in one for real? it's something I'm not missing out on. the threesome followed shortly after.

SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
12/7/2019 2:15 am

Ouch....sounds like your all about the fun...and that is a good thing. Eventually you have to tun into someone who is about having as much f uh n as you


wyldguy88 35M

12/7/2019 3:51 am

Wow very cool


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/7/2019 5:29 am

"Passion" is a romantic classification for "Infatuation". Of course "Passion" [infatuation] dies . This "Infatuation" is just Natures way of telling two people to reproduce.

The longevity of this "Urge to merge" is at most 3 years lasting. If you reproduce during this time, the infatuation can be extended out 4 more years. ... but after 7 years...that's it. No more feelings of passion for that one person..... so many, men and women, seek [what they call] "Spice"...another way of saying, "Someone else they can feel that passion for, again." Or sometimes they try to have another kid, and then another, thinking this will bring passion back....it doesn't.

Once upon a time , someone took this feeling to paper and wrote stories about it, and people got all gooey romantic over it.... and now dummies expect this to last , and if the passion [aka infatuation] doesn't last, the dummies think something is wrong with their relationship. No...nothing is wrong with the relationship [at least hopefully not] just because the passion goes away....it's just Nature. Some stay together, some split off amicably, while some get hostile, not understanding what's happening .

Contrary to what the Church says, people were never suppose to pair off and be together for life, because they felt hot for each other. This is just Nature telling two to reproduce. You don't have to marry each other, nor stay committed to each other. .... But the law says if reproduce, you pay for it. The law doesn't say you have to stay together.


littlepl4yth1ng replies on 12/22/2019 11:45 pm:
Almost my thoughts exactly.. "Love" is a social construct to put a definition on that chemical reaction in your brain to reproduce.. Love isn't real. Compassion... that's the real thing that people feel for whomever, romantic or not... if "romantic" is even a thing.
Buddy says oh yea you can just run to tiffany's for jewellery for your girl last minute gift if you run out of time... my response? it's called go buy some beer, put down your wallet, and have a good time drinking with her...

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/7/2019 5:34 am

but you don't have sex.he said it's normal... why do people get into this shit then? .... Because they feel comfortable together, but eventually one or both, will find someone else to have sex with.

That's the rub. You'll hear, "But don't you love each other, why would you have sex with someone else?"

Sex and love is are separate conditions.

Love is based on the condition the other gives them what they need.

Sex is based on the condition of infatuation, or maybe just having the hots for someone, [a fuck and go...aka one night stand] .


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