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need2befilledxox 39F
22 posts
11/1/2019 2:01 pm
Instant messenger


Is there a reason why I can’t use IM as a standard member? I figured it’d be something that I can do for free. But every time I wanna chat the upgrade to gold pops up. Could someone me out?

Allhard4u50 62M
1725 posts
11/1/2019 2:06 pm

Hi, as a standard you need points to IM. 11 points to initiate a message.....and most of the time it doesn't work....it use to be free.....


MonsterCacti 39M

11/1/2019 2:14 pm

U need 11 points per chat or post a ton of pics answer blogs and get tipped than you can either buy gold or get gold free from Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating if you wait your time. Also I would be more than happy to fill you up if u like I have heavy loads


need2befilledxox replies on 11/1/2019 7:08 pm:
Like you could buy gold with just points?? They also give out free gold membership? What do you have to do for that?

corey1946 23M
7 posts
11/1/2019 2:14 pm

Often use other things like snapchat, you can add me there by the same name


Oldercock54 70M

11/1/2019 2:14 pm

it sucks


RICARDO______ 42M
22 posts
11/1/2019 2:19 pm

you need points to chat and anything


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
11/1/2019 2:20 pm

Over the years, this site has tried to monetize every aspect of the site. In effect, monetize fun. All its really done is frustrate people.

The blogs seem to be the last frontier. To that end, welcome to the blogs.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


nelly030176 48M

11/1/2019 2:21 pm

i'll fill you.


dogslife2live01 71M

11/1/2019 2:25 pm

help you how? you mean like pay your membership so you can hookup with other guys?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


need2befilledxox replies on 11/1/2019 7:04 pm:
No, maybe there’s something I’m doing wrong or could do that would allow me access to IM. But hey I wouldn’t stop someone wanting to pay for me too have a gold membership!

Richard_Wood1969 54M
2 posts
11/1/2019 2:29 pm

Yes they are going for the money because they are a business. You get tantalized just enough with the free options then entice you to break down and pay. Judging by the amount of gold members, I believe the business model is working. Seems like introducing yourself in IM then moving to a different platform like Snapchat or Kik or whatever seems to be a good work around.


need2befilledxox replies on 11/1/2019 7:11 pm:
The problem is I can’t reply to anyone on IM. Nor can I start a convo. If I try this window pops up that tells me to pay for a membership...

dogslife2live01 71M

11/1/2019 2:30 pm

    Quoting forgotforgetting:
    Over the years, this site has tried to monetize every aspect of the site. In effect, monetize fun. All its really done is frustrate people.

    The blogs seem to be the last frontier. To that end, welcome to the blogs.
what's this world coming to when all these companies are trying to capitalize on our hard earned money!
g$d will punish them all


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


bigtitsonly707 37M

11/1/2019 2:30 pm

too bad you are +600 miles away or you could just meet me and not worry about the chat


Redhawk0969 54M

11/1/2019 2:31 pm

Half the time the messenger feature doesn’t work! This site definitely has gone down hill. Monetizing everything on it.


WildStrokingApe 48M

11/1/2019 2:45 pm

Try to message me and let's get it working here!


dontcumtoofast 38M
144 posts
11/1/2019 2:48 pm

yeah, it sucks. you need points but they never actually give you the points. it's all a scam


1_4agood_time 45M
66 posts
11/1/2019 2:50 pm

It is frustrating. You really get what you pay for here.


wanka22 51M
1 post
11/1/2019 3:04 pm

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6265 posts
11/1/2019 3:07 pm

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whynotnow95670 45M
31 posts
11/1/2019 4:26 pm

Yeah, the whole points thing. Lame.


rf69999 52M

11/1/2019 5:50 pm

need the points...


niceguyallcinher 37M

11/1/2019 6:00 pm

I have enjoyed using the IM


Misfit7935 44M
31 posts
11/1/2019 6:25 pm

I don't like that it costs points even if the person you are messaging doesn't reply


Bon_Dover 31M

11/1/2019 7:11 pm

Need points for that


loveme12270 53M
55 posts
11/1/2019 9:10 pm

U need points sweety


Yotalb05 36M

11/6/2019 4:21 pm

Hit me up and let's meet up or something. Shoot me a message on Kik LB0587


Bluewoody88 47M/46F
2 posts
11/18/2019 9:18 am

Are you able to use points to respond on im? I just sent you some.


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