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Blogs > cuteredhead83 > Confessions of a redhead

Questions and Confessions  

cuteredhead83 40F
105 posts
6/11/2005 7:51 pm

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Questions and Confessions
Ok. I have a confession to make. Its that I am not just a "sex addict" Yes, I love sex but I need a certain level of intimacy to close the deal. Maybe it's because I haven't had a real relationship lately. Although I love sex, I craven intimacy. I love how it can be so intoxicating like a drug. There are moments in this time where I only have one of the five senses. I just simply need it. So I guess I am a intimacy junky Is that so wrong?

I met a guy recently that stated that no guy enjoys kissing. They just do it to make the girl happy. IS THIS TRUE?

As we were engaged in "adult" activities I realized he does not get the simply pleasures of intimacy. He just cared about the sex. I guess that's why I couldn't go through with it.
nightstogether 64M
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6/12/2005 1:26 am

 Funny, I consider kissing an integral part of an intimate sexual encounter; it is a major part of the foreplay, a smaller part of the actual act, and a major part of the aftermath. Anyone who claims differently is either hoping for a few bills on the sideboard in the morning - or at the end of the pre-booked hour - or they have no emtional feelings, no interest in their partner whatsoever.
nightstogether
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biggy869 45M

6/12/2005 6:55 am

 I think kissing is like a drug as well and intimicy is the best part of sex. Feeling that closness to another person and wakeing up glad that they are there to start the day off cudeling with makes all of life better.-biggy869


rm_wetwillie492 71M
17 posts
6/12/2005 4:07 pm

 You continue to be an intimacy junkie, it's what makes 'love-makeing' different from 'sex' and YES, There IS a difference, and a Real man knows it. all the best to you.


cuteredhead83 40F
34 posts
6/29/2005 8:00 am

 see i want that grundle


2happy75 47M

7/1/2005 12:44 pm

 who ever told you that guys dont like to kiss is wrong. Its not just wrong, its probably the most stupied and foolish thing I have ever heard.


rm_goodwill1971 52M

7/1/2005 12:59 pm

 I just came across your blog looking for some positive thoughts on this July 4th holiday and found this one as well. That guy cant be for real. I personaly feel that there can be nothing more intimate than a kiss. When two lovers are intertwined, bodies sharing, how much closer can they get than when their mouth meet as they climax. It makes you feel as if your inside them. I never understood the mentality of guys that just want to get straight to business and go home. Doesn't anyone still have (or at least remember) times when you and your mate drove eachother crazy with intense, erotic, passionate kissing and touching?


cuteredhead83 40F
34 posts
7/1/2005 3:48 pm

 mmm.. Thank god their are real men out there


DanSailor7059 60M
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7/6/2005 10:23 pm

 Kissing is a necessary part of any intimate relationship. Whether or not it leads to sex, kissing is totally human. Oftentimes the kissing leads to much more, with the mouth leading the way. The guy who says he doesn't like kissing is trying to tear out a necessary component and doesn't seem to be one worth keeping.


vengeur 48M  
837 posts
9/12/2005 11:11 am

 "I met a guy recently that stated that no guy enjoys kissing. They just do it to make the girl happy. IS THIS TRUE?"

No way! Not this guy! I LOVE kissing - it makes ME happy. No matter whether it's a beloved girlfriend of mine, a slightly tipsy hot stripper who just finished her lap dance for me, a guy's wife with whom I am fucking as part of an MFM, or a drunk girl at a house party who grabs my cock after we've only been talking for two minutes...I LOVE kissing the ladies! (All of the examples I gave above really have happened to me, some more than a few times.)


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