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Blogs > rm_elfandmaiden > The ramblings of Elf's Maiden

Frustrated and Wondering  

rm_elfandmaiden 57M/63F
54 posts
1/27/2007 9:41 am

Last Read:
2/4/2008 8:31 pm
Frustrated and Wondering

We are a fairly average fun loving middle aged couple. We try to always be polite and respectful. We joined Hookup.Date Naughty Affair Dating over a year ago now, in hopes of finding a bisexual lady for friendship, fantasy fulfillment, and exploration of bi-curiosity. We have tried many different approaches, from a simple generic message cut and pasted sent to several promising candidates, to very specific personal messages referring to things mentioned in their profiles.

It seems that no matter what approach we use in contacting a woman we are interested in getting to know, the responses are the same. 90 + % of them simply do not reply at all. Of those few that do reply it seems to be nothing more then a token response that ends with that first reply with a very few that give a second. So after more then a year, the fantasy remains just that and nothing more, and curiosity is still just something wanting to be explored.

So our questions are these:

1. Are there truly any Bisexual ladies that truly want to meet couples in the northern Illinois area? If so, what the hell does it take to actually get to know them?

2. Are there other couples on this site having the same problem?

3. Are there couples on here that have actually had some success? And what's your secret? LOL

We posted this in the magazine advice column and got several responses but very little in the way of helpful replies, and nothing from the ladies in question. We figured we would try again on our blog see what you all have to say.

Maiden & Elf

Not that I honestly expect any replies here, there never have been before, but who knows I may just be surprised.

iwantadirtylady 59M
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1/27/2007 10:25 am

 just dont do it
stick with what you got
dont go lookin for more


rm_elfandmaiden replies on 1/27/2007 10:40 am:
EXCUSE ME??? What do you think we as a COUPLE are on here for? This is something for the both of us and we are doing this together.

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