A musing from The Edge
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Posted:Mar 13, 2016 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2016 5:23 am
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Good evening, (well it's late evening for me at any rate) I've just spent a little more time browsing through the search areas. And I've changed my search criteria yet again, thinking that I may be barking up the wrong tree so to speak. I used to have a wide age range-from 40 to 65 in my searches. Lately tho I've wondered what I would actually have in common with someone that much younger than me other than great sex. But knowing what pleases me, a nice body just isn't enough. Great to look at, hey I love eye-candy as well as the next! But for me personally, there has to be more. I've always known most of my attraction to someone is my sense of them and a mental stimulation. Their personal scent, the way their skin feels underneath my fingertips, the low rumbling of pleasure that's nearly a purr when you're pleased just holding me close and we're talking about nothing in particular, but just enjoying each others presence. My question is this: how do you feel about the age difference? I'm curious to know where others draw the line, or if after a certain age there's even a line to be drawn? Does it really boil down to what two people want, or is a big difference always destined to be just a fling to be remembered fondly? Please let me know how you see it from your side, I'd really like to know. Doing better here, and spring approaches. As always, X's n O's, Halo
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Checkin In from The Edge
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Posted:Feb 27, 2016 8:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2016 11:24 pm
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Hello everyone! Just a progress report and a shout out to my Peeps! Healing's coming along well, still not off bed rest though. Not allowed to come out and play as yet, but hopefully sometime late spring if all goes well. Still getting personally adjusted to my new "look" lol, as if the cancer scar wasn't bad enough! However, it does prove I'm a survivor at least. And can keep my sense of humour even through it all! So yeah, I'm unique in an awkward way, and don't expect to be attractive accept to a small group of men. It's ok, I've always preferred quality to quantity anyway. When I get a little more comfortable I'll take some new pics, tho the ones I have up are just now a year old. As always, it's just fun and friendship first, and more later if we click. I appreciate all the love and concern everyone's been sending me. It does really help me to not think of myself as a beastie!  You have to peel away many layers of thistle to reach the saffron, but they say it's worth it. Treat me sincerely, and I'll return it, it's that simple. X's n O's always, Halo
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Valentines
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Posted:Jan 13, 2016 10:21 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2016 3:52 am
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Hello my watchers, and those interested enough to browse through here! Well we're coming up on another Valentines'/Mardi Gras pairing, and I thought I'd check in. I remember long ago, when I first started trying "dating" sites my initial quest was through a local phone line cast out into the spring waters. At that time I quickly got tired of the ssdd of "Hi! I'm blah,blah,blah" and starting running an erotic version of the old "Tasters' Choice" commercials. Leaving a little bit of the ongoing story in the quick 3 minute intro I was allowed. It was cute how many people weren't even interested in me, but loved the story line. Which proves to me that men and women still want the magic and the romance, even if it isn't forever lol. And one of the old radio stations ran a dateline way back, that my single mother was on, and she urged me to at least try it. Apparently roses and my voice triggered something, because the response surprised the hell out of me, let alone the DJ. I guess I missed my calling . I just never really thought I was all that, and to many I'm not. But I'm thankful for those of you who think I am, and take the time to tell me so. I'm not certain what type of man would be interested in me now, now that I'm missing a digit, but I know he'll be special. I know there are certain levels of desirability that most people won't go beyond, and I'm already hitting four or five of those! But I appreciate those few who still find me witty, interesting, and quirky/funny. It's nice to know there are some like minds around me, even if my only way of reaching them is here. Well, it looks like another V-Day and MG alone for me, since I'm still not off bed rest or allowed more than doctors visits out. But I'll have visions of blue roses and Morrisons' "Moondance" dancing in my head, and beads and coins and a wonderful meal prepared by my , and maybe even a glass or two of champagne  . We'll see, Maybe I'll just have another shot of tequila and a ferrero rocher (more my style) As always, yours, Halo X's n O's
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New Years Update from The Edge
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Posted:Dec 23, 2015 12:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2016 9:54 pm
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Thanks to all for the warm messages of encouragement and caring! Very kind and sweet of you to take the time out of your busy meanderings through here. Health is improving, IV line's out and the wound vac is off, healing nicely. Still not allowed to put any weight on it, and I won't be dancing or driving for a while, but I'm getting there. Maybe by Spring I'll be up and about. I wish you all a Very Happy New Year, keep me in your thoughts and blessings, and thanks for bearing with me. Trying to get back into a regular routine, the pain has taken a toll on me, and I need to devote some TLC time to myself, but I'm painting and drawing again which is a plus, and rediscovering some of the things I used to love when I had more free time lol....as always, X's n O's Halo
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Ferrero Rocher
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Posted:Jan 12, 2015 7:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2015 7:53 pm
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Ferrero Rocher...manna from heaven...early Valentine gift from my little shadow...catch me, kiss me, oops you missed me! *Thinking Naughty but Heavenly thoughts!* Kisses Peeps, Halo
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Awesome Valentine's Coming!
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Posted:Jan 11, 2015 4:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2015 7:54 pm
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Just a note to my Peeps! Valentines Day and Mardi Gras are on THE SAME DAY this year! I WILL be there...going as cupids msgr...handing out Valentines to all!...If you don't have any plans yet this would be a great day time start to a wonderful evening. I don't have any evening plans yet, but I'm working on it! Kisses, Halo aka The Tiny Blue Frog
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Let's Bring in the New Year!
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Posted:Jan 1, 2015 4:06 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 12:14 am
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When I first got on this site ages ago, I was a busy single parent with little time for dating. So this seemed like a logical choice because, at the time, they had monthly meet n greets locally, and it was a fun way to meet guys I'd normally not come into contact with. Since my usual grind was work, home, store and more work! lol...I made some really great friends, some are still with me today...but never really quite met that guy that made me "float". Then, after I found out I had my cancer, it really became pointless to be on at least imo. After all, I was dying! What little time I had left should be spent with my , and how could you even ask someone to walk through that nightmare with you? I often joke about how I was lucky I was already single when I got the news, saved me the pain of being sick and watching him walk out the door! After all, you can understand, but it doesn't make it hurt any less. Then my six month sentence turned into a year, and that year turned into several. After a phenomenal survival of 8 years, (and if you check the statistics, I truly am a miracle Living Dead Girl! lol) I thought, "What the Hell! If I'm going to live, I might as well have a full life, which includes sex and love and all those things I'd forgotten about. Btw, I'm a Stage 4 Colon Cancer survivor, a natural redhead and a lefty! Beat those odds! I I'd stopped having sex when my was 5-6, because I just couldn't find a happy medium between someone that wanted to stick around, and someone I wanted to keep! And I managed just fine. I had the occasional bout of loneliness, when I wondered if my choice was right, but all in all I'd say it was ok. Needless to say, this past year I met a person that for whatever reason, (I'm still trying to figure that one out!) lit a roaring fire in me that I had smothered for years! Try as I may, I wanted nothing more than to be around him, talk to him, touch him. And of course, he was totally unavailable to me! Destiny certainly has a sense of humour! And for many reasons he will never be available to me, pretty much unless the earth and heavens move, so we remain good friends, and I admire from afar. But this also gave me the desire to have someone in my life again, which I really couldn't have cared less about up until this point. And then I met this crazy, silly, smiling sexy seductive Latino chef on here! And we hit it off, and I had the best most loving caring passionate totally mind blowing sex possible! It was so much fun while it lasted! But I guess some things are more kickstarters than long term propositions, and he tired of me and moved on. It is what it is, and I deal with it, but it helped to remind me of what I don't want my next relationship to be, and gave me some good things that I do want it to be. Clarification is always nice. You can't really find what you want, till you know what you want. I want majick pure and simple. I want to be irresistably drawn to you, and you to feel the same. I want whatever time we have together to be so connective, that it spreads out from us and touches anyone near us. I want to be at peace in your arms, to make you feel as wonderful as you make me feel. I want a song or a scent to bring my face to your mind, so you text me with a smilie or a "Hi!" just so I know you're thinking about me. I want you to be the hot sauce to my ketchup, the salty to my sweet, I want us to be enamoured of each other. And I want you to be my friend. So that no matter if I'm a mess, or I haven't picked up around the house, we can still spend time together cuz I don't need to impress you or be fake. I want to be able to talk to you for hours on end about anything, or lie quietly with you saying nothing, either is fine cuz we match. Heart and Soul, rather than Soulmates if you can understand the difference. Either way, I hope I find you this year. I'll try to remember that each "relationship" I end up in that doesn't work out, is a stepping stone to you. and that hopefully our paths will cross sooner than later. The path to your heart is not always clear, but I know it'll be worth it in the end. Happy New Year my love, wherever you are, who knows? You might be reading this soon....Hugs n Kisses n Peace Halo
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