Bail out.  

Imthatgirl1122 38F
797 posts
8/22/2019 6:05 pm

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8/24/2019 4:18 pm

Bail out.

i’ve been reading quite a lot of blogs or status updates from guys wondering if most women in this site were real or not...because they planned or arranged to meet but they never shows or they just never heard from her anymore.

Being bailed …. it happens to A LOT!!

I mean really, it's not a big just for sex but it will be nice if they will let me know least...hey, my situation changed sorry I can't meet you or hey, I kinda meet someone else or just get new gf so I can't meet. then done. I don't think anyone will turn into psycho bitch and keep chasing them right?
fyi, the only time I will become psycho bitch only when in relationship haha.

for example, couple months ago, this guy been talking to for weeks...and suddenly one morning he's just disappear.
or this guy I've been talking and planning to meet on certain date... he just suddenly never reply. For me, veryyy rare to guys first. . and if he didn't reply once then I won't bother to him again and again. onto the next guys lol. so I was like...weird... made feel like we were still a .

I dont really give second chance. if they gone and showed up again, which was happen too, then I won't respond anymore. I mean come on, we're all adult here and it's kinda a basic can or can't..let me know. so simple.

I bailed many times as well... if I don't feel confidence, or when my guts tell me don't go, or I met someone new...ill just apologised to him and move on. everything can changed in a matter of I do believe in 'sorry I can't' , as long as they let me know then it's all cool!

so yeah....every guys that reading this, you are not the only one. girls also experience being bailed lol...or maybe just haha.
but really...even though it's just a fling, just nsa, fuck buddy, ons....whatever it was you are planning matter how small that things are...or no meaning...let's not be an asshole to each other.

Imthatgirl1122 38F
1078 posts
8/22/2019 6:08 pm

now 5 am in the morning and I'm hungry...for food lol...

Beppino72 99M

8/22/2019 6:20 pm

I have had a couple women string me along saying they wanted to get together but whenever I would suggest a place to meet they would just stop responding. It is hard enough to find any women in the rural area where I live so it is extra disappointing when this happens. I have yet to have an actual meet up on here.

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:14 am:
yeah I get you. If they don't want to meet then don't say they want. simple as that. this guy even talk with me for weeks...then he just gone. so weird. anyway...good luck ....and thanks..

PooCsuka 51M
29 posts
8/22/2019 6:23 pm

Well said and I totally agree.

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:15 am:

jolielaide 48F  
689 posts
8/22/2019 6:35 pm

in the last couple of weeks i have read blog accounts where said female was left wondering because the guy didn't show or have the courtesy to say i won't be coming. it doesn't just happen to you but a lot of other females too.
manners do go a long way but some here don't seem to have any.

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:17 am:
yeah totally agree with you. too bad actually.
anyway...I love your profile pic, sexy!!!!!!

backpocket13 42M
8146 posts
8/22/2019 6:41 pm

Hey Darlin,
........I read “Bail Out” out loud and My phone automatically called my Lawyer and my Bondsman!..........I can’t Believe that anybody would Bail on You,.........I guess Stupidity really is Contagious, I’ve been seeing A Lot of it on this “Site” (and I use that terminology very very loosely I assure you. ) It must be Catching!........Thankfully I’ve had My Shots!......Just a little ramble is all,.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:22 am:
you always have the best answer....made me smile...thank you

CedarsPrince 39M
813 posts
8/22/2019 6:42 pm

The term I like to use is "Ghosted"

It happens and it's not asking a lot for a simple text to apologize about canceling because something came up.

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:23 am:
ghosted...yes that is! lol...hate it!
thanks for stopping by

dogslife2live01 67M
1190 posts
8/22/2019 7:59 pm

well that is the mature way of looking at this. trouble is too many people can not handle rejection...
me i like to set meets where i like to eat... if they don't show, i don't leave hungry

"if I don't feel confidence, or when my guts tell me don't go, or I met someone new...ill just apologised to him and move on."
and that would be the main difference between bailing (just not showing up) and self respect... where you cancel

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:25 am:
lol we are the same....I don't leave hungry too
thank youuuu

dogslife2live01 67M
1190 posts
8/22/2019 8:01 pm

about your hunger...
just move closer i will gladly make you breakfast. after all breakfast for two is always tastier than breakfast for one

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:27 am:
yes so hungry but realise that nothing to eat at home. and nothing opened at this time sigh.....

Ndsomefun2018 50M
136 posts
8/22/2019 10:01 pm

Yeah, not sure who is real or not, they send a couple of messages then nothing . By the way u have a great body, would like to chat with u

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:27 am:
yeah happen all the time. thanks anyway

s2ndegree 60M  
9295 posts
8/22/2019 10:12 pm

It seems a little late in life to have to teach people about
courtesy.It sounds more like people making good on their
karma but only on the wrong people!

Using more than all the road!

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:35 am:
I know. well said. thanks

Yours_4A_knight 54M
1164 posts
8/22/2019 10:28 pm

I have had so much trouble even getting women who live close enough to me to actually meet to respond to attempts to communicate that I can not comprehend finally getting to the point of meeting and just shrugging, then not going

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:38 am:
I know, happen to me too....why we need to make things idea..
thanks anyway

proteus_2a 53M
7588 posts
8/23/2019 12:21 am

Sad truth my lady , indeed

Ghosting happens, and usually has to to with priorities changing
- with you becoming a back burner plan , and of course unaware of the shifting
( in your case though, I bet a considerable amount of hard core stupidity on their part was involved )

Too late in life to educate them actually
Only appropriate motto :
"Zero fucks Given "

Cheers my lady , and keep it up


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:41 am:
lol...I like that Loser Emoji haha...
zero fucks given..yeah I like that.
thanks P

author51 56F
79129 posts
8/23/2019 12:54 am

I have been ghosted myself more times than I can count my friend...It is only polite to just message and let them know what is happening ..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 3:42 am:
yeah you can't go wrong by being matter how meaningless the encounter was...
thanks Joy....

jajo696 64F
723 posts
8/23/2019 2:12 am

Are we asking too much for people to have and use manners in this day and age? I dunno....seems like a few of the public role models are also lacking in manners/ respect. Social media seems to have made people bolder and nastier, and then they hide. It has happened to us all....and its not a good feel. The anxiety and excitement building up to the meet...and then its all for naught. With each makes you pose the Ugh ~~

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 4:01 pm:
Yeah i feel you... something so simple really but poeple become more
Ignorant. Thanks for stopping by

profcoquin27bis 55M
2327 posts
8/23/2019 4:33 am

totaly agree

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 4:01 pm:
Thank you

azriel1970 49M  
26460 posts
8/23/2019 5:01 am

I agree. I have had to cancel meetings but I at least let them know. It takes a few seconds to at least send a text or an email. I am so tired of ghosting....... People have no common courtesy anymore it seems.

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 4:02 pm:
You are so right. It only take a second to send simple message.
I guess it happen all the time. Thanks

whoisagentj 49M
6045 posts
8/23/2019 6:15 am

However I will say this, being bailed on happens more to men than it does women, at least in my experience. I've been bailed on so many times by women, I think it's normal.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 4:04 pm:
Hmm maybe.. but happened a lot to me too

RobK2006 52M
5241 posts
8/23/2019 10:53 am

I'm sorry some people aren't treating you right...

Imthatgirl1122 replies on 8/23/2019 4:05 pm:
Ah thank you.

dogslife2live01 67M
1190 posts
8/24/2019 11:48 am

"yes so hungry but realise that nothing to eat at home. and nothing opened at this time sigh....."

there is always something to eat... even if it only crackers and foie gras, and champagne, or chocolate syrup and bodies

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity

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