I am looking to be happy and develop my wife into a hot wife. I have a long way to go in obtaining my goal. My first step is to get her to open up to the idea of a MFM encounter. She will not watch porn (I do not think she has ever watched any, definitely not with me)our sex life has dropped way down over the last few years. We have at least started to talk about how important having a sex life is to me. I have tried to have her talk about her fantasies, but she said she just does not think that way. I have indirectly brought up the idea of her with another by telling her of what i thought was the sexiest dream I ever had. I told her I woke up in the middle of the night with the hardest hard on I ever had. She said it must have been some dream. I told her it was , and my dream was that I was watching her really having fun having sex with another man. She did not have a negative or positive reaction to that. The other time I brought it up was when we were having sex . She was on top of me and I was retelling her of my dream and I came really strong. After I came I called her a tickler and she said that it was not her but I tickled my self. I am happy to say she did not have a negative reaction to my comments. I am looking for other settle ways to bring up the idea back up. She has begun to read "romance books" from the library. I was hoping to find a book/Arther that wrights a positive story with a MFM story line. I would , like to find some movies NC17 or hard R rated with the same story line. I have posted in a few of the groups I have joined for help , but there have been no responses as of yet. I will write again upon moving forward with my goal.