We are a happily married couple of almost 22 years and together for 26 looking to explore ENM. We are fairly new to the lifestyle but have experienced both soft swap and full swap (as well as some hotwiffing) and have found that it’s improved our sex life and our relationship so much that we are eager to get more involved in dating. We are highly attracted to like minded couples that put a lot of effort into how they present themselves both online and in person. Athletic and fit builds turn us both on. We are looking for friends with benefits that play as committed couples but do not mind occasional solo play as well. She is really into being the center of attention in play situations and he loves to watch but is also interested in joining in. His fantasy is MFM. She is also interested in exploring kink and BDSM….not much experience but both of us are willing to try anything once. He is very into pleasing a woman and enjoys being told what they like. Overall we are looking for fun, fit and drama free couples that want to meet for drinks/dinner and some fun adult play where organic experiences present themselves.