We are seeing what is out there. Looking for couples who are interested in having some drinks and see where it leads us. Must be height and weight proportionate as we are the same. Also looking for the occasional single male to play, key word is single. We are new to the lifestyle, and are still trying to figure out if it is for us. We have had one experience with adding another guy, and she really enjoyed herself. So now we need to decide if that was a one time thing, or we can be happy and embrace this lifestyle!